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Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Two options, both tempting or both terrible, and you have to pick one. Would you rather is the easiest way to get your partner talking, because nobody can resist explaining their answer.

Play the game below on one phone: you pick, pass it over, your partner picks, and you both see how many you matched. Every question is also listed underneath if you'd rather read them out loud on a long drive.

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Pick a category and tap the option you would rather do. Player one goes through every question in it, then hands the phone over without showing their picks.

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Funny would you rather questions

Start here. Silly enough to get you both laughing, and just specific enough to start a real argument about elevators.

  1. 1Would you rather share one phone for a month or share one toothbrush for a week?
  2. 2Would you rather have every argument turn into a musical number or have every argument happen in whispers?
  3. 3Would you rather only text each other in GIFs for a month or only send each other voice notes for a month?
  4. 4Would you rather have your camera roll shown at your wedding or have your search history read out at your birthday party?
  5. 5Would you rather get stuck in an elevator with your partner's ex for an hour or get stuck in an elevator with your partner's mom for three hours?
  6. 6Would you rather hear a sitcom laugh track after every joke your partner makes or hear dramatic movie music every time you two disagree?
  7. 7Would you rather swap wardrobes for a week or swap jobs for a day?
  8. 8Would you rather only say 'I love you' in a terrible accent or only say it by text?
  9. 9Would you rather let your partner pick your outfits for a month or let them pick your next haircut?
  10. 10Would you rather accidentally like your partner's ex's photo from five years ago or accidentally send your partner a text that was about them?
  11. 11Would you rather dance every time your song comes on, wherever you are or sing along to it, loudly, wherever you are?
  12. 12Would you rather meet their parents with spinach in your teeth the whole time or meet their parents after calling their mom by the wrong name?

Romantic would you rather questions

Sweet ones for a night in. The answers show how your partner likes to be loved, which is worth knowing.

  1. 13Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen every night or have one big night out every month?
  2. 14Would you rather find a love letter hidden somewhere at home every month or get a playlist made just for you every month?
  3. 15Would you rather have your partner write you a song or have them paint your portrait?
  4. 16Would you rather get flowers for no reason every week or get one surprise weekend away every year?
  5. 17Would you rather have a photo from every day you've been together or have a video from every anniversary you'll ever have?
  6. 18Would you rather get a long hug every time you come home or get a forehead kiss every time you leave?
  7. 19Would you rather have a proposal story that's embarrassing but hilarious or have one that's perfect but a little forgettable?
  8. 20Would you rather spend a whole rainy day in bed watching movies together or spend a whole day exploring a new city together?
  9. 21Would you rather have a partner who remembers every tiny thing you say or have one who always knows what you need without asking?
  10. 22Would you rather cook your partner a three-course dinner or have them cook one for you, however it turns out?
  11. 23Would you rather renew your vows every ten years or go back to where you met on every anniversary?

Would you rather questions about dates

Every answer here is basically a date idea. Screenshot the ones you both picked and actually go on them.

  1. 24Would you rather go on a date planned by your partner's best friend or go on a date planned by your mom?
  2. 25Would you rather have a $20 date in your own city or have a $500 date in the most boring town nearby?
  3. 26Would you rather take a hot air balloon ride at sunrise or take a night kayak tour under the stars?
  4. 27Would you rather take a pottery class together or take a salsa class together?
  5. 28Would you rather wear your fanciest clothes to a fast food place or wear pajamas to a fancy restaurant?
  6. 29Would you rather spend a night at a drive-in movie or spend a night stargazing with your phones off?
  7. 30Would you rather let a coin flip decide every turn on a drive or let a stranger pick your dinner order?
  8. 31Would you rather team up at trivia night or go head to head at go-karts?
  9. 32Would you rather take a day trip to a small town you've never visited or be tourists in your own city for a day?
  10. 33Would you rather build a blanket fort and watch a movie or book a fancy hotel room in your own city for one night?
  11. 34Would you rather do a sunrise hike or do a midnight diner run?
  12. 35Would you rather take turns planning a surprise date every week for a month or plan every date together for a month?

Travel would you rather questions

Good for planning your next trip, or for finding out you should never take one together.

  1. 36Would you rather take a two-week road trip in a tiny car with no AC or take a long weekend away with an eight-hour layover each way?
  2. 37Would you rather let your partner pack your bag without looking or pack for both of you and get blamed for anything forgotten?
  3. 38Would you rather spend a week in a famous city where it rains every day or spend a week somewhere sunny where there's nothing to do?
  4. 39Would you rather go on a surprise trip and find out where at the airport or plan the whole trip yourself, down to every meal?
  5. 40Would you rather go on vacation with your partner's family for a week or go on vacation with your own family and your partner for a week?
  6. 41Would you rather take an overnight sleeper train across Europe or take a week-long cruise with no wifi?
  7. 42Would you rather get lost in a foreign city with a dead phone or get stuck in an airport for 24 hours?
  8. 43Would you rather only travel within driving distance, as often as you like or only travel abroad, but once every five years?
  9. 44Would you rather visit every national park in the US or visit every continent once?
  10. 45Would you rather win a free week somewhere completely random or pay for a long weekend somewhere you've always wanted to go?
  11. 46Would you rather share a twin bed in a tiny hotel room or get a huge suite with two separate beds?

Food would you rather questions

Low stakes, high drama. Nobody has ever changed their mind about leftovers, but it's fun to try.

  1. 47Would you rather eat only your partner's cooking for a month or eat only gas station food for a week?
  2. 48Would you rather never be allowed to steal food off your partner's plate or have them steal one bite of everything you order?
  3. 49Would you rather let your partner order for you forever or always order exactly what they order?
  4. 50Would you rather give up takeout for a year or give up bread for a year?
  5. 51Would you rather eat breakfast food for every meal or eat dinner food for every breakfast?
  6. 52Would you rather cook Thanksgiving dinner for both families or host both families and order everything in?
  7. 53Would you rather only eat beige food for a week or only eat green food for a week?
  8. 54Would you rather always finish your partner's leftovers or never have leftovers again?
  9. 55Would you rather eat at a five-star restaurant with someone you don't like or eat cereal for dinner with your partner?
  10. 56Would you rather make one dish perfectly or be okay at cooking everything?
  11. 57Would you rather have your partner's grandma cook for you every Sunday or have a famous chef cook for you once a year?
  12. 58Would you rather always do the cooking or always do the cleanup after?

Would you rather questions about living together

Chores, sleep and the thermostat. The small stuff that matters most once you share a place.

  1. 59Would you rather clean the bathroom every week forever or take out the trash every night forever?
  2. 60Would you rather always control the thermostat or always control the TV remote?
  3. 61Would you rather get woken up by your partner singing every morning or get woken up by a dog licking your face?
  4. 62Would you rather share one car for a year or share one bathroom for a year?
  5. 63Would you rather never grocery shop again or never fold laundry again?
  6. 64Would you rather hear every thought your partner has about your driving or never drive when they're in the car?
  7. 65Would you rather always be too cold in bed or always be too hot in bed?
  8. 66Would you rather share a blanket that's slightly too small or have separate blankets forever?
  9. 67Would you rather let your partner load the dishwasher their way forever or load it yourself every single time?
  10. 68Would you rather decide what's for dinner every night or never get a say in dinner again?
  11. 69Would you rather never argue about the TV volume again or never argue about whose turn it is to do the dishes again?
  12. 70Would you rather live with a partner who leaves every cabinet open or live with one who leaves wet towels on the bed?

Hard would you rather questions

Neither option is easy. Save these for when you have time to talk about why you picked what you picked.

  1. 71Would you rather read every text your partner has ever sent or have them read every text you've ever sent?
  2. 72Would you rather move across the country for your partner's dream job or ask them to turn it down for yours?
  3. 73Would you rather be completely honest about everything, even bad haircuts or keep a few small white lies forever?
  4. 74Would you rather have one huge fight a year or bicker a little every day?
  5. 75Would you rather live next door to your partner's parents or live with your own parents for a year?
  6. 76Would you rather win an argument when you're wrong or lose an argument when you're right?
  7. 77Would you rather forget your anniversary every year or have your partner forget your birthday every year?
  8. 78Would you rather not see your best friend for a year or not see your family for a year?
  9. 79Would you rather have your partner be more successful than you or be more successful than your partner?
  10. 80Would you rather spend a year long distance or spend a year living together with three roommates?
  11. 81Would you rather never be able to apologize or never get an apology?
  12. 82Would you rather know your partner's honest opinion of your cooking or know their honest opinion of your friends?

Would you rather questions about the future

Lighter ways into big questions about where you'll live, how you'll work and what growing old together looks like.

  1. 83Would you rather retire at 45 on a tight budget or retire at 65 with plenty saved?
  2. 84Would you rather live in a tiny house by the ocean or live in a huge house somewhere boring?
  3. 85Would you rather raise kids in a big city or raise kids in a small town?
  4. 86Would you rather grow old in the town where you met or move somewhere new every five years?
  5. 87Would you rather throw a huge party for your 50th anniversary or take a trip around the world for it?
  6. 88Would you rather live abroad for five years or never live more than an hour from where you are now?
  7. 89Would you rather work from home side by side forever or work at the same company?
  8. 90Would you rather quit your jobs and open a business together or both keep steady jobs you don't love?
  9. 91Would you rather have a pool and a tiny kitchen or have a dream kitchen and no yard?
  10. 92Would you rather be the grandparents who travel all the time or be the grandparents who babysit every weekend?
  11. 93Would you rather spend retirement driving around in a camper van or spend retirement in a cabin you never leave?

Make it a would you rather quiz

Pick your questions, answer them yourself, and send the link. Your partner tries to guess what you'd choose, and the site scores every answer. It works on the same couch or from different time zones.

  1. 01

    Choose your questions

    Use any from this page or write your own. The ones about your real life together work best.

  2. 02

    Answer first

    Your picks are the answer key. Set how many they can miss and what's at stake.

  3. 03

    Send it

    They guess on their own phone. You both see the score and every miss.

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What the answers say

Splitting on a funny question means nothing. Plenty of happy couples disagree about elevators and beige food. The reasons are where it gets interesting: when your partner explains why they'd rather share a toothbrush than a phone, you learn what they actually care about.

The living together and hard choices categories are the ones worth slowing down for. If one of you picks โ€œone huge fight a yearโ€ and the other picks โ€œbicker a little every dayโ€, that says a lot about how you each handle conflict, and it's a much easier talk to have over a game than after an argument.

If you want quicker picks, try these this or that questions for couples. For longer conversations, there are questions for couples for every stage, and if you're playing with a group, the newlywed game questions are made for an audience.

Frequently asked questions

What makes a good would you rather question for couples?

Both options have to be about equally good or equally bad, otherwise there's nothing to decide. Specific beats vague: 'share one car for a year or share one bathroom for a year' starts a better argument than 'money or love'. The best ones are about the life you actually share.

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

Read a question out, count to three, and say your answers at the same time so nobody copies. Then each of you explains your pick. The game on this page works on one phone: player one picks, passes it over, player two picks, and you both see how many you matched.

How do you play would you rather over text?

Send one question at a time and wait for their pick before you reveal yours. Or make a quiz on Couples Quizzes: you answer first, send the link, and the site scores how many of your picks they guess right.

What's the difference between would you rather and this or that?

This or that is a quick preference, like coffee or tea. Would you rather is a whole situation, usually with a catch, like sharing one phone for a month or one toothbrush for a week. Would you rather questions take longer to answer and lead to more talking. If you want the quick kind, there's a separate list of this or that questions for couples.

Should we ask deep or funny would you rather questions?

Start funny and finish deep. The funny and food questions warm you up, and by the time you get to the hard choices and the future you're both in the mood to explain yourselves. If one question turns into a long conversation, let it.

How many would you rather questions should we play?

Ten or so makes a good round, which is about one category in the game here (each has 11 or 12). The talking after each answer is the point, so there's no need to rush through all of them in one night.

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